The perfect matching

I spent just 4 days at D’Lagoon, but I really enjoyed them. The location was wonderful, 3 deserted beaches, hammocks to relax, easy life. I got totally disconnected. Everytime I visit a new place, I’m bombarded by inputs and decisions to take: What can or “must” I see here? Which activity can I do? What’s in the nearby? Where should I eat? How much time shall I spend here? When shall I leave? Where to go next?

Here the only decision I had to take was What can I eat? So peaceful for my mind. I relaxed a lot.

They provide by themselves..

What I liked the most about this place has been the atmosphere (not only for the funny staff..).

I’m pretty sure that I would have left earlier I haven’t met the people I met.

I was finishing writing my post and getting ready to have dinner, when Roland, a French man with whom I had talked during the day, kindly invited me to have dinner together.. “It’s not funny eating alone!”.  I was ordering my food at the counter, when I met an Italian couple: M&M. I knew they were there, because I saw their names while I was registering mine on the book.

We started talking in Italian (so weird!). They  sat at my table and Roland joined us. In a few minutes, we started talking in 4 different languages! M. is a freelance teacher from Bolzano and perfectly speaks Italian, German, English, French and some Thai. R. is from Nice, but lives in Munchen and M. is a young patient guy from Brescia. We got along really well since the very first moment. We talked until 2am on the beach, under the palm trees..we hadn’t realised that in the meantime music had stopped, people had gone, we could have been in Italy, Kenya, whatever. It was ages since I laughed that much! M&M were supposed to leave the day after, they were not really enjoying their stay here, but at the end they decided to postpone their departure…even because I told her I had never snorkeled before…and she told me: no way, tomorrow we’ll do that!

I put my foot on five  Continents, but I had never put my head underwater…I love the sea, but I don’t have too much confidence. This time I could not miss the opportunity.

R. perfectly knew the snorkeling spots as he visits the Island for some months every year. I’m travelling around the World, I’m visiting wonderful places, but I discovered a completely new World underwater. Seeing baby sharks, a turtle, hearing the corals breathing, seeing all those colorful fishes I didn’t even know they were existing really made me happy. We snorkeled for the whole day..I enjoyed it that much! I’m so happy I met them, really.

M. is a really crazy woman,  a volcano! She’s 44 and has been travelling all over the World. I’m so impressed. So far the only places I know she hasn’t visited are Goa and Sri Lanka. She lives between Bolzano and Vienna, she lived in Tahiti for 2 years, in Bangkok 3 years, she visited Africa, got malaria 3 times, she’s a rescue diver (and she dives up to 75 mtrs!) and all this while working as freelance teacher, a job she loves and started doing after her graduation in Agriculture.

While we were talking one night, she told me this: “you are a traveler, but you are not an adventurer..you are a woman, baby!”.

Yes, I’m a woman, I’m caring. For me the concept of adventure  is much broader than doing something risky or dangerous for your life, extreme sports or epic journeys. It’s going out of my comfort zone, overcoming my own personal limits, going with the flow without trying to have the control over things. So I’m not gonna change my blog’s tagline!

When I met her, I had the feeling to be in the right place, at the right time, a big advancement in the puzzle I’m making. The project I wrote about in the last post is teaching. I did that last year and it has been one of the most enriching experiences in my life…and I want to do that again. Where I will do that is still a mystery ..next week will be quite busy and will decide where!

At the end I decided to have some laughs more and I left the Island with Italian guys yesterday. We spent a night in Kuala Besut…a nice fishermen town. This morning they headed to KL, while I headed to the West, Penang, further 6 hours crazy driving.

I will leave Malaysia on Tuesday and meet them again…last minute decision!

I’m curious to know where I will end up in chapter 9!

Into the wild

I can’t say I haven’t explored the different landscapes of Malaysia!

At the end I spent 4 days in Cameron Highlands, the highest hills in Malaysia..you don’t really need all that  time unless you like trekking and you want to do some of the proposed tracks but I’m not one of those people. It was nice breathing some fresh air and calmness after all the heat and crowdedness of the past week.

I went to see tea plantations and know more about how the tea is processed..really interesting for a tea lover like me! The landscape was breathless! And actually if compared with India or China, this is nothing!

I made a short hike in the mossy forest where the clouds are at low level and create a special environment, different from the kind of jungle that we all usually have in mind. We just found a snake along the way and then many pitcher plants like these!

On Thursday, after  5 hours on the road and 3 hours on the river, I arrived in Taman Negara, that is supposed to be the oldest tropical rainforest in the world (but actually other Countries claim the same…). The day after I went for 4 hours trekking in the jungle: 1,7 km up and 1,7 km down and Canopy walkway: 7 bridges at 35 mts! Totally worth it!

In Taman Negara you may see all the animals that live in the jungle: tigers, elephants, snakes, birds, sunbears, deers, tapirs and others. I havent’t seen none of these, neither a leech (not wet enough that day!).The fact is that this National Park is big 7 times Singapore (!) and this kind of animals stay away from people so it’s really difficult seeing them.  Some rangers were telling me that they saw elephants coming towards the resorts looking for food just some weeks ago…

The enlightened!

 On Saturday morning..another looong bumpy ride first on the road towards North-East  and then on a fastboat: Perenthian Islands!  Many people suggested me to go there and then I wanted to some totally relaxing days. Basically there are 2 Islands: one big (Besul) and one small (Kencil) that is supposed to have nicer beaches and lower prices and this has been my choice. You have to tell the boat driver where you want to go and not knowing how the Island was, I told him Long Beach…bad choice! The first impression was to run away immediately: crowded, dirty and overpriced. Basically a party beach.  Now it’s high season and everything is fully booked, so I started the same play I did in Perth some months ago..going from place to place looking for a bed: no way! Moreover, when I asked people in the chalets/hostels they answered me with arrogance..and this didn’t help.  At the end I managed to find a bed in 25 beds dorm in Long Beach, I was tired after 10 hours journey and pissed off of the overall situation, so I decided to have a rest and then moving forward the day after.

I’m quite picky with beaches, they are the first places where I put that BUT I was talking about some posts ago: I don’t like If they are party, honeymoon, couple, family style… Basically a desert beach is ok for me and I found it!

A research on the internet last night, a tip by a friend , a call to check availability this morning (one room left!)  and I ended up in D’Lagoon, that is a private beach, really quiet and relaxing..exactly what I was looking for ! There are couples, honeymooners, groups of friends.. but everybody respects the other and if you want to disappear from the World for a couple of hours…you can. This morning I went to Turtle Beach and nobody was there…I just saw little friendly sharks…amazing!

There’s a “big” French Community, some of them have been here for months now  et on doit parler français! It’s good for me, even though sometimes Spanish words come out.

If I think that yesterday I wanted to run away and this morning I asked if they need an housekeeper here…from one extreme to another…this sounds like me

I don’t have plans and I decided not to care about budget this time. These days I’m not travelling, I’m on holiday. When the cash finishes, the holiday finishes (there are no ATMs here!), easy.

I have an open ticket for going to the West Coast, my last stop in Malaysia and then decide the destination for the upcoming two months. I’m waiting confirmation about a project to which I will take part (I hope)…according to the reply, I will decide if going immediately North or coming back South, slowing down the rhythm for a while!

Leaving things behind

I understood that this time it would have been  challenging  before getting off from the airplane last Monday. I could already feel the heat… not as tragic as in Bangkok last January, but almost there!

Petronas Towers!

I spent 4 days in KL, a kind of “technical stop”: rest, laundry, set the GPS, because I was really going with the automatic pilot after the days at Ijen Festival! I couchsurfed even this time  and the funny thing has been that the host has found me as he replied to my open request on Couchsurfing! Other 7 people (all males…) offered me a place to stay, but at the end I decided to go to Sasha’s, a really kind and polite guy. What an amazing flat he shares with his flatmates!  Very modern, with swimming pool and view on the City…it looked like those in the movies!:-)

KL is a nice, modern, international city, but nothing really exciting for me.  Moreover, while I was going around with my backpack, people were staring at me as if they had seen an alien…but actually KL is one of the most important hubs and transits in SEA, so I thought they should be used to see backpackers around!  And I realised that I’m not the only one who has this feeling!  And while I was on the taxi to go the bus station, I had a “funny” conversation with the taxi driver in those 2 minutes drive:

you are sweating, uhm? Nooooooooo, Why are you telling me this? At the end, there are just 36 degrees, I’m carrying 17 kg on my shoulders and other 2 bags and I’m trying to get into your bloody car! And  he started: are you married?boyfriend?alone?where are you going?where did you stay?Where have you been? All this in 2 minutes! I mean… even in Bali they were asking me the same things, but always in a polite, soft way. I never felt it as an intrusion, but this time I was about to say: can you please shut up and bring me to the station?

So on Thursday, I’ve decided to go towards the South and I took the bus to Melaka, 2 hours from KL. Many people told me that it would have been much more cultural and historical and it is like that, but for being an Unesco heritage I was expecting something more to be honest.

 I was getting on the bus  and I had to put my backpack in the trunk. I had the other bags in my hands and there was the driver that was cleaning something in the street. He saw me and he didn’t help  me. He stopped his activity and just enjoyed the scene…I mean, or you help me or you keep doing what you were doing! It’s not funny  staring at me! At the same time I met some people that looked at me in a really serious way and then suddenly: Goodmorning Miss! How are you?

It’s funny!

Through CS, I met a lovely girl Mak Chan who brought me to have lunch in a really famous Chinese place in KL (and usually it’s not my favourite food, but that was amazing!), we took a walk  in the Central Market where I managed to convince her to try the fish therapy…so funny and so itching! There was even in Bali, but much more expensive compared to KL! And then we ended our afternoon enjoying an amazing tea in a tea house I would have never found on my own…as always, meeting locals and people who live the place make a totally different experience!

I still can’t get a precise idea of this Country, I mean about the people.  Maybe it’s because it’s a really potpourri of cultures (sometimes I wonder..Am I in India? China?) and so culturally rich and diversified that it’s impossible getting one idea!  I’ve been told that the North is nicer, so I will wait for a while before drawing my conclusions

On the weekend, I went to Singapore, just 4 hours and slightly more than 5 euros from Melaka. I was unsure if going there or not, but I thought it would have been a shame skipping it, while I was so closed. And I’m glad I went there, because it turned out a positive surprise!

The discrete LV shop at Bayfront in Singapore

At first glance, it may seem a City that you can enjoy just if you have a credit card with you. If  you like fashion, exhibiting brands, finest cuisine, then  you will love that place! But if you are able to pick up the right places (and again hanging around with locals met on CS and following my host suggestions has been really helpful) it can be really affordable. We had a good Chinese meal for a few dollars at Bugis! Anyway, nothing compared to Australia guys!

Hanging around with locals is always the best!

I ended up visiting the Chinese and Japanese Gardens, really nice and the National library: it’s huge! One of the best I ever seen..16 storeys!  The only “negative thing” I found has been that they push the airconditiong at maximum everywhere! You are suffering the heat outside and once you enter in the shopping malls and trains you are freezing for the cold!Hate that!

I was couchsurfing at Fern’s house, a girl with whom I found out I have many things in common! There was another guest, a really kind guy from Indonesia (again…) Yogyakarta, the cultural city in Java.

I spent just the weekend in SG, then on Sunday night I took the bus straight to Cameron Highlands…back to Malaysia again! The bus was one of the best I’ve ever taken. The seats were armchairs, with the possibility of reclining them. There was even a personal entertainment system…65 SG dollars, but totally worth it..even because it brought me directly to Cameron Highlands.

I was sleeping so well..the driver had to come and wake me up! It seems a different Country actually! If I think that in the past days I could not stand the heat in KL and Malaka, and now I’m here with a sweater and a jacket! It’s so chilly, but nice!

Probably I would spend here a couple of days, then decide the route again!

This week I’ve been a real gypsy..changing 4 different places in 3 different Countries. I have the feeling that this would be the trend for this month. And it has been interesting for all the people I met I mentioned before and for those who I re-crossed!

I was in KL and I found out that even Bea, the girl from Sevilla I had previously met in Bali was there. We realised we were in the same place on Facebook! We had an interesting conversation about our experience in Bali (she spent there 5 months – Bali effect again!) and the importance of leaving things that don’t flow,

Actually I’ve already started leaving things here and there. I realised that in every place I’ve been to I physically left something, sometimes because I destroyed them, forgot them or simply because I don’t need them, they are a useless weight on my shoulders. I’ve always been a person attached to material things..and I found difficult throwing away things.Having my things made me feel secure.

Since I’m travelling, I realised how many burdens I left behind:

  • 3 hats(1 forgot in Perth, 1 destroyed in Rottnest Island,1 voluntarily left in Singapore)
  • pants in Rottnest Island ( bleached after 7 weeks as housekeeper)
  • 2 pairs of shoes in Adelaide( don’t need them)
  • my favourite  jeans and one book in Darwin (first destroyed and second given to the Library)
  • one dress and a pair of flip flops in Bali (given to Charity shop)
  • make up in Kuala Lumpur (foundation opened in the trousse…an authentic mess!)
  • another book in Melaka
  • the towel and Australia and Indonesia Lonely Planet Guides in Singapore at Fern’s house.

The result is that by backpack is much lighter and it’s much easier going around with that…the less you have, the less you have to care about things. The only thing that is really important to me is the passport, because that’s me, where I’ve been, where I am and where I will go and all that comes with that. All the other things are easily replaceable!

All the pictures so far here!

Gone with the flow

This time I exaggerated.. just realised I wrote really a chapter, rather than a post..Just take your time!

This last  long weekend has been crazy, literally!

Actually the adventure started on Thursday, when I left Ubud. I was sad, for the first time in 4 months on the road, to leave a place..I was feeling like at home really, but at the same time I really wanted to take part to the Ijen Festival, it seemed a really big thing and it has been like that!

I had appointment at 7am with the taxi driver with whom I became friend during my stay in Ubud. He gave me suggestions about meditation and other things, a really nice guy. He drove me to Ubung, the bus terminal in Denpasar and helped me in getting the ticket to Situbondo, East Java and then he left saying: “Just be careful, ok? I don’t want anything to happen to you. When you come back here, we’ll go for a road trip around Bali!”. Sounds good!

After a while I was there, I realised I was the only foreigner among all the people…some faces were not really nice, nothing to be worried about, but I would not recommend to stay there more than necessary. I got on the bus and waited for the departure time: 9.30am. In theory! Because one thing I learnt is that buses in Indonesia just leave when they are full! And so we waited until 10.30am in a smoking, hot bus.

The traffic was heavy and it took us some hours to get up to North and get the ferry to East Java,  quite weird staying on the bus while crossing the sea! Even on the bus I was the only foreigner and a few people tried to talk to me…in Bahasa! So funny!

Around 4pm, I arrived in Situbondo and I could already notice the difference with Bali. Again, the only foreigner there and no English signs..I got off the bus and I had to look for the other bus to get to Bondowoso, about 1 hour far from there. This time actually I took a bemo, a minibus that applies the same rule: they leave when they are full..and when I say full, I mean open doors and people and stuff everywhere!

After 1 hour, I arrived in Bondowoso and I took a taxi, or better the taxi took me, because I was  almost killing myself stepping down from the narrow door! The taxi was a taxi bike with the seat upfront. So after almost 10 hours travelling, a taxi, a bus, a ferry, a bemo and a bicycle I arrived in Bondowoso!

At the school I met the first participants and the Festival committee, we chatted a little bit and then we have been driven to our hosting families. I was with Lesthia and Hendry from Indonesia. The house was big, really nice decorated and the big family really warm: basically 3 generations live there!  The offered us a really good tea and some snacks. Then the lady prepared us the hot water in a bucket for the shower…you have to know that toilet in Indonesia are really particular. In the touristic Bali, it was basically the Western style, but it’s not what Indonesians traditionally  use that look like this:

The water on the left is for flushing on the right..it's not a bathtub!

 After a shower, I had dinner with the other guys: many different things…rice, fish,tempe,tofu,chips, fruits, so good and so different compared to what I had eaten until that moment.

On Friday morning, we woke up and the lady had prepared us a really good sugared tea (exactly as I drink it, love it!) and some typical Indonesian sweets, called Lepat..made of Cassava…delicious!!! We were ready, with our “formal” dresses, required for the opening ceremony, ready to leave and then the lady told us: “Guys, go for breakfast now! It’s ready!”

Breakfast!?!? What was that then?! Pre-breakfast! And on the table there was rice, eggs, chicken, vegetables, chips..basically what I was eating for lunch or dinner until that moment! I was quite shocked to be honest!  I’m not used to it..but I found a little bit of space for that..even because the lady made it especially for me, knowing that I like Nasi Goreng (friend rice with all the stuff above!).

After the big breakfast-lunch, we left for going to the Festival venue, but not before saying something to the children where the lady works as headmaster. When they saw us, they went literally crazy..so cute!

Crazy!

 A few words to them and then to the Festival that was taking place in a modern Islamic School. It was so nice meeting the other 60 participants from: Estonia, Lithuania, France,Italy,Greece, Czech Rep, Poland,Uzbekistan,Iran,Pakistan, Philippines, Brunei,Malaysia and of course Indonesia!

They gave us the badge and a welcoming kit and we gave them a book we were asked to bring for the children that lack access to good books. I was looking for it in Bali,when I found this about a Princess:

She rocks!

I couldn’t leave it on the shelf! I don’t agree on how the story finishes but I hope it can be an inspiration for some of them (and of course I bought another book for boys!)

We took part to the opening ceremony with traditional dances and songs, performed by the talented students of the school!  After the speech of the Regent of Bondowoso, we have been invited to have lunch with him…again! My stomach was a little bit confused actually! Local tvs were present and interviewed us about out impression on the Festival, our expectations ,etc.

We left to see some traditional Batik and then went to the Radio…to record  some sentences in our own language!

Off by scooter (thanks Hendry!) to the guest house  to change clothes and then ready to play games with the children of the school! We were divided into groups and we had to teach something about our own culture and language. Actually the students asked me a lot of questions about Italy..Pisa seems to be the most famous City! Then I taught them number from 1 to 10 and how to say hello, thank you in Italian and the only Italian rhyme I could remember…Girogiro tondo, choreography included ;-) . I was so impressed..I said and wrote the numbers once and they repeated and remembered them perfectly and the same for the rhyme! Monsters!

Shy to speak with..but not in front of the camera!

Time for rest and for going back home to have dinner…a special one! Because it was the lady’s birthday and all the family was there..from the new born to the oldest one! We put away tables, armchairs,  and put 3 carpets on the floor and we were ready to eat! First the cake and then rice, tempe, tofu and many other things! It has been so great! Maretta, another girl from Indonesia, joined us, so that we were 3 sleeping in the same bed!

Saturday was the most intense day. After a big breakfast – lunch (again!), we got ready for the Parade..wearing our typical National costumes.

The most atypical Italian costume ever...all made in Bali!

Now, guys…just to be clear: You will never find someone dressed like this in Italy! But this was the only thing that came to my mind while in Bali! The most atypical costume, but easy to make…with things bought at the Market in Ubud! And as this activity was called Carnival..I guess it was appropriate..so pretty satisfied with the result!

He's the traffic controller!

We went around the City, dancing in the street, taking pictures, saying hello to children..it was so funny!!!! Then we saw some dances and songs from the School again, this time open-air!

Time for lunch, changing clothes and then ready to go towards Ijen Vulcano!

The ride has been quite particular….we were on these trucks!!!!

Crossing the jungle is not that easy and if you have to move 60 people, this is the best option!

A couple of hours…but such a bumpy ride!

We arrived then at a coffee plantation, had a look around on how it works, dinner and  then fire camp while waiting for the confirmation to go climbing..some warning had been raised in the last days and it seemed we couldn’t go..but at the end, we made it!

Just 2 hours sleep (but really needed) and then ready to go! Another hour riding and we arrived at the volcano. We started climbing at 2am…the 3km path was quite steep and not straightforward and really cold there! I’m not really a mountain lover and among the other things I’m not trained (remember..sport against my religion!?), but I made it and it seems I was even in the leading group, so proud of myself!

I made it! On top!

Ijen is particular because it produces a lot of sulphur and there are about 300 men that work here collecting it. They hike at night and take out the stuff by hand, without any protection. Sulfur is poisonous and smokes and smells are overwhelming sometimes. I had a scarf and the bandana as mask and I had difficulties..and the collectors don’t have anything. They carry up to 80 kg loads on the back and they get a few dollars only..I promise I will never complain anymore whatever I will do.

You will be wondering why we did that in the middle of the night…it was not to see the sunrise (it’s impossible,the mountain covers it), rather to see the blue flame of the burning sulfur at the bottom of the crater that could be visible before the sun rises. Unfortunately I could not get a good picture…but it was magic!

It has been tiring, but definitively worth it! The view on the lake is just AMAZING! Then we went down around 7am, had breakfast, got on the trucks again towards another adventure…rafting!

Going with the flow...visual representation

There’s not better sport that represents my philosophy: going with the flow!

It has been less challenging than I thought (but better like this!)..sometimes it seems more canoeing than rafting, but I liked it! The raft actually almost rolled down..once it was part of the game, but the second it wasn’t! The guide was giving instructions just in Bahasa and Lesthia was translating for us: back to front! Front to back!

At a certain point we were going towards all the rubbish….bleahhh…not really white water I would say!

The funniest part started after rafting..it was raining and we were on the way back to the initial point…this time on this mean:

Oh yeah!

The route was bendy and we were climbing up and down. At a certain point, we were too heavy and the truck could not go up. The driver gave us instructions to go all upfront, but he could not make it. So all down! He climbed up and then all up again!

We had to be careful with trees…so one of us was saying: mind your head guys! All laid down! Then up again! And it was raining in the meanwhile..it seemed like being in the army…

We took a “shower” and the initial point and then we went back to Bondowoso…time for closing this amazing Festival and say goodbye to all these new friends, because this is what we became, honestly!

I waited a couple of hours with other 20 people and we headed all together to Surabaya. This time I haven’t been clever enough to choose a good time for the flight: not too early, not too late..right at noon! As a result, I was obliged to go there on Sunday evening straight after the event(5 hours from Bondowoso, it would have been too late and risky leaving on Monday morning) and sleep at the airport!

I was so tired that as soon as I sat in the car, I fell asleep and woke up in Surabaya at 1.30am.  The airport would have been the last stop (it was a door to door service) and we were dropping down the last guys, when one of the girls, Mehdia, has been so kind to invite me at her house! So nice taking a proper rest on a comfortable bed for some hours! I gained some battery!

The day after we were offered a big breakfast by her kind family…a special Javanese soup, made with chicken! Really good!

As a result, I’ve been hosted by another family there

I never felt more welcomed than in Indonesia, really guys. Indonesian people are so warm and friendly, they are really generous. Just to tell you…when I left on Saturday, the lady gave me some tea, knowing that I like it and prepare some food in case we needed energy for the volcano climbing. When I left on Monday morning, my friend’s mother gave me donuts and crackers, in case I needed that at the airport and knowing I usually have a sweet breakfast! I mean…I was not even supposed to be there, I ended up suddenly in the middle of the night with the others! And when Mehdia’s dad realised I was from Italy, he updated me about the result of the Eurocap football match against Spain of the night before and we started talking! He told me: “if you want to stay here one month is OK, it’s a shame you have to leave now, I could have brought you to see many things around, please keep in touch with us! And if you come to Surabaya, come here”.

Sometimes I met people who could not speak English, but this hasn’t been an obstacle: smile and body language and we could understand each other.

I’m so impressed, really. If I think how I ended up in Indonesia..I mean, I was in Australia, I knew that it would have been a first stop, but I didn’t expect that I would have liked to  leave it that early. In that period, on Rottnest island, I had a lot of free time and I re-discovered the pleasure of reading. I was looking for some travel books  and I found on the Internet Eat-pray-Love ( I knew just in general the story, on the flight to NYC two years ago, I fell asleep watching the movie), I downloaded it and page after page it was like: that’s me! Different paths, but same resul, a mess. One night  I was browsing on Couchsurfing website and I found the post about the Festival..and I said: I want to go there, not just because everything was for free, but because I really wanted to be part of that, I just felt it was for me, don’t know how to explain that! OK, I got it..Bali and Indonesia, one month. Here we go.

I want definitively to go back to Indonesia and explore the other parts. The official motto couldn’t have been more appropriate: Unity in Diversity…one big Country, but so different!

It would be a mistake identifying Indonesia just with Bali, it’s not like that.It’s even true that I haven’t visited the rest of Indonesia,but the other parts came to me, because the guys I met were from different parts of the Country. Moreover,I’ve been hosted by two local families, so I can affirm that Indonesia is one of the most catching and welcoming Countries I ever been!

Sometimes I struggle between the willingness to explore better a Country and the eagerness to see other places.I have to make decisions based on the budget basically..if I stay more in a place, I have to drop something else, but something else would wait for me! So, what to do??

Going with the flow, always! I don’t care much about crossing places or monuments out of a list, I just follow my feelings in the moment. I don’t regret to have spent 3 full weeks in the little Ubud, without having gone to other parts in Bali.

This time, the flow brought me to Kuala Lumpur. To enter Indonesia you need an exit flight and the cheapest ticket was for KL, less that 40 euros, 20 kg baggage included, so I went for it. And here I am!

This time NOTHING is planned! Looking forward to write Chapter 8!

I will upload the pictures in the gallery soon, in the meantime you can see them here on Fb!

Bali is not a place, it’s an experience!

After almost 2 weeks, it seems I recovered. I had to go the Clinic here in Ubud twice because the situation didn’t get better after having visited the doctor and all the symptoms I could have, I had it. But now I’m OK. It could have been much worse, so better not to complain!

And at the end I’ve  decided to go the healer. I was curious to understand why the healer is so important in the Balinese culture, why many people go there.

Talking with many locals, the name of Cokorda Rai was coming out very often and everybody was talking about him in a really positive way.

As suggested by many locals, I went there around 1 pm when the big groups should have already left, because, I didn’t know, but Cokorda is one of the most well-known and respected healers not just in Bali, but all over the world, so he’s really requested.

Cokorda Rai is an 82 skinny man who has retired, but still practices  as healer in Negari, a village close to Ubud in his Balinese temples’ compound.

Usually it’s not a one to one meeting, you share your visit with the public, but when I went, nobody was there. Just Cokorda, me and the interpreter, a French woman who has been living in Bali for 10 years…one of the most shining and calmest people I ever met! She went to Bali on holiday, she fell in love with the Island and ledt her job in Human Resources and move to Bali. She picked up Indonesian and started working as tour guide on cruises and interpreter.
He sent her to keep me company while he was eating to “recover the energy” after the morning spent with many people. She explained me that Cokorda defines himself as a bridge between whatever people believe and people who want to heal and that his philosophy is that we have to live the present, creating an equilibrium between mind and body. Pretty much common sense, but who’s really able to do that?

After his lunch, Cokorda joined us and sat on a chair and I spontaneously sat on my heels. He began, asking: what can I do for you?

Actually I hadn’t thought about that in advance..I mean I wasn’t there for my physical sickness of those days, my reply just came spontaneously: I stick too much to the past.

He looked at me again and he told me: What can I do for you?

[Again?] I told you..I think too much to the past.

You shine! [?]  What can I do for you?

And he was really sorry for that, he was like struggling, when you try to solve a maths problem and you can’t.

And I was quite embarrassed because that was all I could say to him.

Then he said, Ok, just turn your back at me. He touched first my head, then my ears, nose, mouth and shoulder with strong energy, but not painful for me and he said: no, not so much stressed.  What can I do for you? You, not blocked!

And then he asked me to lay down on the straw mat. He took a wooden stick and pressured some points in my feet. One in particular was painful and he said: ah yeah. Do you suffer from pain? And he was pointing to my abdomen.

Yeah, sometimes.  And he explained what makes my skin a little bit crazy.

And then he said: You need focus? Direction?

And he drew some patterns on my body to raise energy: 2 sticks as support, a circle to move energy and open chakras (points of energy in our body)and the bliss sign  and he said I hope you will find a job soon. “Don’t show it to anybody and don’t wash it away. It will disappear by itself.”

I didn’t expect anything from this meeting and I’ve been happy to have gone there. What impressed me more than anything else has been what he said “You, not blocked!”… I guess our chat would have been quite different just a few months ago..well, healers are not just in Bali I can assure you!

And at the end Cokorda didn’t  tell me anything about my sticking to the past…but what could he say or do? It’s up to us as always. Despite all the breakdowns and second thoughts I may have, I think this is the way…so I keep going!

The other day I was reflecting (weird, uhm?) upon the fact that this is the first place where I feel I’m fitting, without adding any BUT  as I usually do (it’s nice, but…). Bali has a strong energy, it’s one on the most charming places I ever been.

I’m pretty sure about the fact that if I didn’t have to take part to the festival that was the only really planned thing during my stay in Indonesia and to which I committed some months ago,  I would have spent some more time in Bali, finding a solution for the visa and postponing my next flight.

But the flow is bringing me there, to East Java..pretty a long trip!

This Festival is about “World Hospitality and Culture Exchange”: 60 participants (not attendants, participants!) from all over the world, we’ll be hosted by local families and we’ll be sharing culture and traditions from our homeland..I just tell you I had to create an Italian costume, an Italian flag, choose a folk song and prepare a performance, because we’ll be on stage! I guess it would be quite funny.

So the agenda for the next 3 days is full! I hope I will take maaany pictures. In the meantime, enjoy Bali gallery!

Keep you posted!